
She has earlier commented on her humiliation and heartbreak, saying she opted for alcohol and cigarettes to help her relieve the pain, but now she has forgiven her ex husband for his unfaithfulness.
And now the beauty even is concerned that Ashley was touted as the villain as their split was discussed by the media.
In her latest interview with Glamour magazine, Ms. Cole said: "There's the belief that Ashley's an arrogant p**ck, but it is not true. We talk sometimes and I can say we are friends."
The songwriter,29, who is currently dating back-up dancer Tre Holloway, said she can even get married again.
"Could I see myself going down the isle again? Never say never. I always said I want to have a family, since I'm from one, so I'd like four or five kids.
"But I am not sure realistically if that's going to ever happen. We can't assume things. I never thought would be a divorcee."